No, they shouldn't have been able to do that. Have you checked your account to see if what your family member says happen did happen?
Since this is a peer to peer community forum where customers can assist other customers with their questions, I would suggest calling customer service directly and see what can be done to reverse the situation.
Thanks, Ann. Yes, I have talked to the family member, Verizon CS, and the indirect store. I receive different answers from each individual I speak to and nothing has been done to resolve the issue. The store has said they will reverse everything IF I return the phone and pay a restocking fee. When I balked at having to pay a restocking fee because they did something they should not have done I was told this was the only recourse and IF I did do this, it would be left up to management to decide if they will file fraud charges against my family member. In essence, they don't want me to go any further with this so they are threatening legal action against my family member to keep me from doing anything.
I honestly do not think my family member has my ss# which is what he would have needed to provide them to gain access to my account. Plus, the store admitted that even with that information, they should not have made any changes without first contacting me. So frustrating.
A customer has to verify by name; that's the bottom line. If the family member was not authorized on the account as an account manager, no upgrade should have occurred. They can talk about fraud charges all they want, but the bottom line is that something was allowed that should not have been. Someone at that store did something wrong, and I would see that the representative at least gets a talking-to. I would not be surprised if they credited that amount to you. Heck, you could even call Customer Service to see if there's anything they can do to try and offset some of that restocking fee. This isn't to say they can credit that back, but see what they can do about maybe a small credit or promotion or something.
Personally I would have swallowed the disgust at paying the restocking fee and returned the phone purchased and got everything reversed. Then never go back to that store again.
Also I would change the account billing password and any other account password information for my safety. Then filed a formal complaint with the corporate offices of the indirect store and BBB for the questionable practices of that store.