Hmm. That is odd, tricket! Lets figure it out. Can your friend send you messages while on WiFi only or on 3G only? Do you have the iOS7 update? Try to reset the network settings. Here is how: Settings > General > Reset > Reset Network settings.
Test out and let us know gow it goes.
Thank you,
LenaA_VZW
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