I would just call a local store and ask because enrollment is automatic, I don't recall ever being notified and you also get a percentage discount on accessories!!
I actually recieved an email stating I was a VIP just yesterday, even though I had reaped benefits from it much earlier.
The email says the following:
$50.00 off any new phone or PDA every year w/ 2 year commitment
25 % off wireless accesories
Text Message Alerts if you are going to exceed your minutes, text's that offer more suitable plans per your usage etc
Waived Fees on selected transactions
Free Phone Book transfers when switching phones
http://www.verizonwireless.com/VIP for more questions or 1-800-220-1615
Hope this helps!
From the web link I posted.
"Some restrictions may apply. Subject to Customer Agreement and Calling Plan. Program membership requires customer to be current in billing. Only accounts that have been Verizon Wireless customers for 12 months and have been on either a single-line Calling Plan or a primary line on a Family SharePlan® with a monthly access of $79.99 or higher for the past 6 months are eligible for VIP membership. Corporate-liable and business lines are not eligible".