PLEASE HELP - My marriage depends on it
meunknown
Newbie

Hi,

Please help - I believe my spouse is having an affair.  He keeps his cellphone on him at all times now and he isn't all that technology savvy, but I'm sure someone is helping him.  I see text messages and voicemails but they have all been deleted.  Numerous "Unavailable" phone calls.  I got online and saw that I can purchase a cellphone spy thing for $100.00.  I don't want to have to spend that kind of money.  Any idea on how I can somehow either block the Unavailable numbers, trace them, make them show their number, have his voicemails or texts sent to either my phone or email??

Your assistance is GREATLY appreciated.  Thank you!

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glinc
Contributor - Level 1

None of this is possible.  If its a private number you won't be able to see it and text msgs and voicemails either,  unless you are a cop.  Call the TV Show "Cheaters" and have them spy on him.

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somegirl
Champion - Level 3

 


glinc wrote:

None of this is possible.  If its a private number you won't be able to see it and text msgs and voicemails either,  unless you are a cop.  Call the TV Show "Cheaters" and have them spy on him.


 

I know this may seem like a crazy idea, but have you considered just asking him what's going on?

 

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Adorableninja
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I agree that you should find out whats going on but I also think you can call verizon and they can send you a list with a the text messages from that phone if you are the account holder that is

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cstrait001
Specialist - Level 1

If you are the account owner, then you can see the call and messaging usage on My Verizon at verizonwireless.com if you are a registered user. However, as others have said here, if the phone number is unavailable, those numbers are not available and only show up as all 9s. Also, you won't be able to see the content of the messages, and neither does Verizon, they don't archive that information for privacy reasons. You would need a supoena to get more information, if it's even available, and that will cost you more than $100 easily.

 

There is a product called Usage Controls for $4.99 a month that can confine incoming calls and messages to Trusted numbers that you define, or block up to 20 numbers. It's more of a product geared towards parents with children, not cheating spouses.

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