Being able to customize Messenger is part of what makes today’s smartphones so useful, Tucsongal. You came to a great place to get some tips and tricks. We see that bearone21 offered a useful tip. Was that information helpful? If you’re still stuck, please provide more details about what you need to do. What messaging app are you using? Are you trying to put a picture of yourself on outgoing messages, or put your contacts’ pictures on incoming ones? What make and model phone do you have?