Sorry, I have the same issues.
Motorola level 2 support says when you upgrade from Gingerbread to IceCreamSandwich and Webtop 3.0, what you see is what you get, and there is no changing other than going to third party apps which of course - for the Motorola Lapdock, there are none.
And when JellyBean (Android OS 4.1) comes out, guess what? No Webtop support at ALL! So your Lapdock becomes useless, Verizon will not give you any money for it.
So it becomes a useless brick unless someone writes an App to replace the WebTop functionality - unlikely considering the small user base for LapDocks!
All the forums have the same complaint. So how about we sue Motorola? Any attorneys want to sue Motorola for loss of advertised function on a product I have owned for 4 months?