Hello Finfan and jw7475,
I apologize for the delayed response as I understand how important it is to have your contacts. Are your devices running the latest iOS 5.1? Are you using iCloud on your device to sync your contacts? I would suggest attempting to restore from a previous backup by connecting via USB to iTunes. Please let me know if you need additional assistance. I would be happy to troubleshoot further.
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